The Pursuit of Free Travel: Inside a Year-Long Quest to Win a Trip

Travel Blog  •  Michael Yessis  •  07.24.06 | 8:09 AM ET

imageBarbara Benham’s New Year’s resolution for 2006? Win a free trip. And why exactly does one resolve to do something that, ultimately, is out of one’s control? That’s one of the things I wondered when I came across Benham’s Travel Contests blog—Update: Sept. 26, 2006: It’s now the Travel Sweeps blog—which weaves sharp observations about travel and life—she’s a Washington D.C.-based writer—with details of the many travel sweepstakes and contests she enters. I contacted Benham via e-mail to find out more about her quest for free travel.

World Hum: On average, how many travel sweepstakes and contests are you entering?

I’d say I’m entering at least 20 a month. I don’t keep a log and I don’t blog about every contest I enter, so I’m not sure of the exact count. When I started, things were really hopping and it was more like one a day, seven days a week. It was right before St. Patrick’s Day, so there were several sweeps to Ireland. This universe is part thematic, part random. I could enter more, but I only enter sweeps I actually want to win, sweeps where if I did win, I could actually take the trip.

Going into this, I had no idea there were so many travel sweepstakes out there. I thought I’d enter one or two a week. I didn’t even know the difference between a contest and a sweepstakes. I was totally green.

And why, exactly, are you doing this?

On one level, my goal is totally practical. I want to win a trip. I’m doing my MFA right now, and the tuition costs have effectively wiped out my travel budget. I still cringe when I think of the trips I could have taken with that money. Add to the mix the yo-yo cash flow of freelancing in a one-income (mine) household. But it’s more than these temporary tuition-induced budget restraints.

I also wanted to play with the idea of making my luck good again. I’d had a few personal blows, a divorce, the deaths of several loved ones, including my father, as well as a smattering of professional disappointments. I just wasn’t feeling lucky. Not in a self-pitying way. I’m basically an optimist. And I’m well aware that my luck slump hasn’t been terrible in the grand scheme of things, I haven’t, touch wood, had any off-the-charts tragedies befall me. But objectively speaking, more bad things seemed to be happening than good things. I wanted to feel lucky again. I think as a culture we downplay the degree that luck plays in our lives. The collective assumption is one of can-do-ism, in fact, it’s more like anyone-can-do-ism, fueled by an over-reliance on the concept of self-determination. Sometimes I feel like telling Oprah and her ilk to go jump in a lake.

Then a friend won a trip to Hawaii, totally unexpectedly. She hadn’t even entered a contest, it had something to do with a public television fundraising solicitation. And that inspired me. I thought, I love to travel so much, and I’m in this funky position where travel is not in the cards for a stretch. Maybe I should challenge my preconceived notions about luck, and try, systematically, to win a trip. I made a New Year’s resolution to do that. Of course I forgot about it the next day. Then in early March, a line in an online column by Gore Vidal jumped out at me: “Life is mostly luck!” In addition to being stunned by his use of the exclamation point, it got me thinking about the whole luck thing again. And that reminded me of my New Year’s resolution. I started Googling that evening.

Any particular trip you want to win most?

One of the first sweeps I entered was for a 15-day trip to Australia with a wildlife scientist. It was sponsored by National Geographic, so you knew it would be top flight. You’d go to the Great Barrier Reef, the Outback, Tasmania. It just sounded sensational. I was pining for that trip for my son as much as for me. He’s nine and he’s been asking to go to Australia since he was four. I have no idea where that came from. Plus, he’s a nature nut, and this trip, had I won and had I been able to bring him along as my traveling companion, would have been a dream-come-true kind of trip.

Another one that sent me over the moon was an African package I found on Donald Trump’s travel Web site. I didn’t even know he had a travel Web site. I was Googling “Win a safari” or some such and discovered it that way. You’d fly into Johannesburg for a night, then fly to Botswana and stay a few days at three different camps and lodges, including The Chobe Safari Lodge. When a sweeps lists the accommodations, and many do, that takes the fantasy to a whole other level. Plus, it would have been a hoot to go to Africa for the first time on Donald Trump. It would have made a hell of a story. Not so much to publish, though that’s always a possibility, but more for the life narrative, a good-for-the-laugh story to tell family and friends.

Those two have come and gone. More recently I’ve been coveting a week at Rancho La Puerta in Tecate, Mexico. That will close by the end of July. I’ve been to Mexico. The draw with this one is invigoration and relaxation, plus history, since it’s one of the first destination spas. It was founded in something like 1940. Another sweeps that’s been given me a vicarious thrill recently is for a week at 9 Beaches, this casual resort in Bermuda. It’s got 80 or so cabins sprinkled around some serious beachfront acreage. Some of the cabins are on stilts in the water. That’s a monthly sweeps, if I’m not mistaken. So, it’s all over the map.

Have you had any epiphanies or gained any particular wisdom from your quest?

I suppose I’ve had a series of miniature epiphanies. This is a lot more fun than buying a Powerball ticket at the liquor store across the street every day. Not that I buy a Powerball ticket at the liquor store across the street every day. Entering these sweeps is a much more productive way for me to intertwine two of my biggest addictions, travel and the Internet, than just meandering online, clicking here and there and fantasizing about the next swell place to go.

I also love the blogging aspect of this. I’ve been looking for a vehicle around which to blog for a while. This approach, purposeful blogging, works better for me than just rambling on and on about my little life—though I indulge in plenty of that in my blog, mainly around trips taken and not taken and to be taken. As for the luck thing, I can’t decide if I’ve had a complete change of heart, if I’m beginning to think there is something to this self-determination business. All I know is I’m having a blast. I don’t even care if I win a trip. In fact, I don’t expect to win a trip. Of course, I would love to win a trip. Who wouldn’t want to win a trip? Now, did I make my luck? Maybe. Or maybe I just got lucky.

Indeed, Barbara. Who wouldn’t want to win a trip. Thanks and best of luck.



13 Comments for The Pursuit of Free Travel: Inside a Year-Long Quest to Win a Trip

gilma calderon 07.26.06 | 8:46 PM ET

My lifetime dream has been going to Italy, by I really don’t have the posibilities.I’m an older person that’s eager to experience a month in Italy and become familiar first hand with their culture. Today I decided to take a chance and try my luck.Please take me into consideration.

Sophia 08.15.06 | 3:59 PM ET

I would do absolutely ANYTHING to win a free trip to Australia.  I was part of an international collaboration program, that was part of school, and met a bunch of Australians.  To be able to see all of them would be the best thing ever.  I miss them so much!  Add to that the fact that I’ve forever wanted to go to Australia!

Any suggestions?

Thank you!

Phyllis 08.16.07 | 5:50 PM ET

To Barbara: I was once a contest fanatic..subscribed to Contest Newsletter and entered contest after contest for what now seems like forever. I won a couple insignificant objects, but not any great travel, which is what I really wanted, and no cash. It got to be very discour-aging and expensive; (postage, 3/5 cards, envelopes and TIME!) And there were all kinds of rules and restrictions, so I dumped that whole idea and decided if I wanted to go somewhere badly enough, I’d try to save part of the expense money.  My latest foray into contesting was to get & use for everything,  Citibank & Amex credit cards that have travel awards. It’s amazing how fast the points add up when just about everything one buys is eligible for award points. Now all I have to do is find the place I want to go that is affordable. That’s the hard part, but it’s fun and a challenge to find just what I want as I have traveled a lot & don’t want to repeat any tours. Trouble is, I don’t necessarily want to go to some of the destinations that may be up for grabs.So, I’m picky.

Now let’s pray that the world doesn’t go crazy and start another war.  That would really “rain on my parade”.

Armetta Sadler 08.19.07 | 9:45 PM ET

Tv says a person canenter everyday, where?

Bonnie Duffie 10.09.07 | 10:37 AM ET

I am getting up there in years and still would like to travel. But I can’t afford to. So I also enter Sweepstakes

will basham 10.30.07 | 1:30 PM ET

As a senior/64 and married to my high school girlfriend, forty years after the fact…her Mom thought me a poor risk! Life goes on…

Asi’ es la vida!  Have always hankered to see Australia and/or Alaska~!

Socorro Jackson 11.10.07 | 5:19 PM ET

I have a passion for traveling,about three years ago I was director of a relgious program an we raised money to take 22 students to world youth day. That was awesome and I know that all the student had a trip of a life time, we for ever changed their lifes. And I am so glad to have been part of it.And if I can win a trip that would be great.

              Sincerely
              Socorro Jackson

Bill Utter 12.07.07 | 3:41 PM ET

My grandparents were from Ireland, they went back several times when I was a child and was never able to travel with them, I would really like to go before I get to old to injoy the trip[

Bill Utter 12.07.07 | 4:07 PM ET

This is where my grandfathers ancestors were born and I really would to visit

Debra Ryan 01.24.08 | 3:29 PM ET

I have been a nurse for over 30 years but now I am a disabled Homemaker. I have always worked but because of my disablity I am unable to do that anymore. I use to apply to sweepstakes all the time but when working I got out of the habit because of time. Now I have time so I have been entering sweepstakes whenever I see them. I wonder sometimes if they are really real? I have never known anybody that has won a sweepstakes before so I don’t really know it they are real. But I try like anybody else. The odds are not very good about winning but you never know! I love traveling. I use to live in Portugal when I was 21 years old for approx a year. It was the best thing I ever did in my life! Even though I had hard times I wouldn’t change those memories for anything in this world. I grew up there emotionally! I learned how to take care if myself at that time. So there is always good in bad. Sometimes you just have to look a little hard for it!!!!!!!!!  Please consider me!!! Sincerely, Debra Ryan

Lauren H 05.21.08 | 10:52 PM ET

I was looking for contest when I found this artical, I have been contesting since 2002 and I love it. since then I have won 22 trips a bunch of cool experiences , concert, broadway and movie premiere tickets, electronic and a little cash. I have been to Disney 3 times for free. I have traveled with several celebrities. I went to Disney with Rosie O’Donnell, Cruised with Regis and Kelly, and Just last mont I was at Universal Studios Orlando with Ellen DeGeneres, My best ever trip was going to the World Premieres of’Live Free of Die Hard’ In Berlin and London
I traveled with a reporter from New York Named Anne Craig. She was great, she let me work the red carpet with her. I did Interviews with some of the cast. I had a ball that I will never forget. Oh yeah I have a picture of me and Bruce Willis in London, How Cool is that. So keep on Contesting,I know I will.

John Goodwyn 07.23.08 | 1:09 PM ET

I’m 62 years old. I had astroke april232003. I’m on disability and unable to work. I lived a productive life until I had a stroke. my wife is Irish and Indian. I’m half german. I was fortunate to visit germany when I was in the Air Force. Now my wife and I would love to visit Ireland, scotland,etc. but we can’t afford the expense of atrip to europe. We watch the travel all the time and we are amazed at the beauty of this world.I was hoping to enter asweepostakes so we could travel. We even thought of renewing our wedding vowssoim day in hawaii. we are going on 39 years of being together. she has done so much for me since my stroke. John Goodwyn

Patti Spezia 10.23.08 | 9:00 PM ET

My family is from Italy and my husband’s family is from Sicily.  I grew up hearing stories of Italy from my grandmother.  I have always wanted to travel there a visit a small town between Rome and Naples called Casino.  I still have family there I have never met.  My Brother traveled there a couple years ago and was fortunate enough to meet a taxi driver who knew of our family and the driver took my brother to our relative home.  Other family members were called to meet the American Cousin. Wine and great food followed. I want to experience my Italian Family too.

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